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Lifestyle design
Life by design, not by default
64 posts
Leaving in 2024
Your choice. Your end of year.
Stop settling for average
Why we do it, and what to do instead
Stop looking for answers in the wrong places
Do this instead
How to grow old with your friends
And not get left behind
The relationship flywheel
Are you making each other better or worse? Make all your relationships work for you.
Two points of connection
How to avoid small talk and shallow conversations
Tackling time confetti
Big chunks, not meaningless scraps
Living on a beach resort
A lifestyle design experiment